I have spent far too long of my life feeling negative and
sad. I feel that I can now admit this, however for a long time I was in denial
and didn’t fully appreciate how I really felt.
I have written a post about the things in my life that made
me feel this way, which I might share with you one day however at the moment,I
wanted to share with you the things that I live by, ‘rules’ you may say, and
have done for the last few years that have helped me ‘Be Happy’ and love my life alot more than I
ever have.
I have been very lucky, in that I have met my true soul mate
– (I am aware this sounds rather airy fairy and all that, but really!) My soul mate, Peter is the only person I have
had in my life, that I believe has truly loved me, unconditionally. It’s the
kind of love that makes you feel secure and appreciated and I know he loves ME
for ME and I don’t need to be anyone else with him. He is also the only person
in my life that I have loved unconditionally, I respect him and his views (even
though sometimes I argue to high heaven) and more importantly, I respect that
he has taught me how to be happy and look at life through a different lens to
how I was before.
I wanted to write this post to share with you these simple
‘rules’ I guess that I try to follow in my life, some of you may read this and
think that I am looking at the world through rose tinted glasses and I am
living in a glass house, and to those people I say.. Maybe I am, but for me,
that is what makes me happy so I am happy to continue to do so J
I must say to you that I am not a qualified councillor, so
these may not work for everyone. I am also not a hippy, or a freak, who thinks
there are pixies in my garden, or unicorns in the sky. I am a ‘normal’ adult
who had a tough start to life which I can now see that I let this effect me for far too
long.
